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The Science Behind The Chemistry: This Is What Actually Happens To Your Brain When You Fall In Love

When you fall in the love, everything changes: The days seem a little brighter, your smile looks a little wider and everything feels fresh, new and beautiful. And, apparently, there are changes going on inside your brain, too. Frontiers in…

10 Tiny Things In A Relationship That Are Literally A Big Deal

There is an important distinction to be made in relationships between people who pay attention to detail, and people who don’t. The first type are people who don’t usually go all-out on the big things like extravagant gifts or getaways for…

8 Lame Excuses Used To Justify Cheating In A Relationship

A friend of mine recently tagged me in a comment on Facebook under an article that was discussing a new dating site that caters to ‘swingers, polyamorous couples, and ethical cheaters.’ Ethical cheaters? The first thought I had, which I’m sure many…

8 Basic Dating Principles Men Need To Bring Back

We have discussed on multiple occasions the effects that the hookup culture is having on dating and courtship – primarily negative ones. When it comes to actually dating, people seem to be lost. We hear very little about people [Looking…

8 Things You Think Your Girlfriend Likes (But She Probably Hates)

My bet is that more than one man reading this can relate to a scenario where he did everything he thought was ‘right’ to get or keep a woman’s attention, but ultimately he ended up frustrated and confused after pushing…

Why The ‘5 Reasons We Can’t Handle Marriage Anymore’ Is Literally Bulls*it

Anthony D’Ambrosio is a 29 year old sex and relationship columnist who recently published an article titled ‘5 Reasons We Can’t Handle Marriage Anymore.’ He and I are the same age until May 29th, when I turn the big 3-0….

5 Signs Your Career is Killing Your Romance

We all desire success. We stay focused and work hard, but at what point does our professional life interfere with our personal life? If we are in a relationship, is there a line to be drawn when work begins to…

This Is What The ‘Perfect Relationship’ Really Looks Like

I think the ideas of a solid, happy, healthy relationship – and the idea of a ‘perfect’ relationship, often become misconstrued. I have never said that couples won’t fight, disagree, or argue. These are all natural parts of life and…

It’s Not Me, It’s You: 10 Ways You Push Her Away Without Even Realizing It

I was once interviewed for an article on Fox News Los Angeles, the author of which finds herself immersed in the LA dating scene (which, as you can imagine, is unique). We discussed some recent experiences that she has had with…

Think Again: 11 Reasons Good Men Won’t Cheat

Cheating in a relationship is, of course, not monopolized by either gender. Men cheat, women cheat, and according to studies, they have different reasons for doing so. I don’t think we can necessarily just say “men cheat for this reason, and…

12 Things Men Are Forgetting About Being Men

No matter where you turn these days, there is talk about what it takes to ‘be a man.’ There are articles and memes and quotes that float around online telling us what ‘real men’ do and don’t do. The thing…

Power Couples: 10 Traits Men Need To Handle Strong Independent Women

One of the biggest complaints I get these days from women is about men who tend to slowly back away after they realize how strong and independent the woman they are dating is. Now, I am well aware that many…

Buy Low Sell High: Here’s Why You Should Treat Your Relationship Like An Investment

Lately, I have been doing a lot of reflecting and learning. I have had my outlook on a few things change and have looked back on my past experiences and realized that I may not have made the best choices…

Long Distance Relationships: Capsule Is Here To Save The Day

Oh the long distance relationship.  If you haven’t been there before, let me tell you, it’s an adventure. Much like with any relationship, one separated by a reasonable distance can be quite challenging. The difference is that you may not…

The Real Reason Entrepreneurs Suck At Relationships

It took me almost 40 years to figure out who I was and what drove my behaviors. Why did it take so long? Because I never took the time to figure it out sooner. But, this year, there was a moment….

Screw The Friend Zone: 7 Reasons Why Nice Guys Actually Finish First

To say “nice guys finish last” is to display a fundamental misunderstanding of what a “nice guy” is or what “finishing last” means. If you mean that a good guy finishes last because he always puts his woman first, then…

8 Things Happy Couples Don’t Do

Sometimes, building a solid healthy relationship isn’t just about what partners do, but what they don’t do. Here are 8 things that you won’t find in the habits of happy couples. 1. Happy couples never discourage each other. Two people…

15 Things Maturity Teaches Us About Love

As we get older, the hope is that we also become more mature. As we become more mature, our perspective on most subjects will change. The hope is that this will also be for the better. One of the largest…

#Foreveralone: 8 Reasons It’s Okay To Be Single

It’s the holiday season! Usually around this time of year, single people are starkly reminded of their relationship status. Family gets together, grandparents ask questions, the frantic hunt for a plus one to your company party ensues…but this doesn’t just happen…

Till Death Do Us Part: The Importance Of Building Trust As A Foundation

Trust, without question, is one of the most important bricks when building the foundation of a strong relationship. Without trust, you cannot have real love. I have emphasized the importance of trust in a relationship in previous articles, but I…